The great comedian Lily Tomlin got a lot of laughs with the words, “One
ringy dingy... two ringy dingy.” And with such gems as, “have
I reached the party to whom I am speaking?” Countless people laughed at her
character Ernestine, the telephone operator (myself included).
Ernestine was just a cog in a big wheel known as the Bell Telephone
Company (later AT&T) and her acerbic wit reflected how many people felt
about such a large monopoly as Ma Bell.
Even the colloquial name of Ma Bell
was hardly affectionate, but spoke to the company’s great intrusion into
American and Canadian homes. We all laughed as Ernestine
said, “We're the phone company. We don't care; we don't have to.”
Ma Bell is probably not the
first or only time that motherhood is used in negative sense. Usually,
motherhood is used positively and with reverence and respect. As it should be.
Like Mothering Sunday, which is next Sunday (March 26) the forth Sunday of Lent
(smack dab in the middle of Lent, kind of).
Some parishes do rather elaborate celebrations on Mothering Sunday with
parties and cake, and some even elect a mother of the day. Originally,
Mothering Sunday was a time to remember and pray for Mother Church. Often, if
it was possible, people cancelled their own worship service to attend worship
in the Mother Church, the Cathedral. Eventually, it because a time for people
to return home, to attend their home Church, and to visit their mothers. This
is widely believed to be the forerunner of today’s Mother’s Day. My mother, who
grew up with Mothering Sunday and not Mother’s Day would expect (prefer) a card
or call from me on Mothering Sunday. To be safe, I call her both days.
It is important to keep, as best as we can, our Lenten discipline, but
let that include opportunities for parties and celebrations. And if that means celebrating
our mothers, or Mother Church, then so be it.
One more
Lily Tomlin-ism, “Forgiveness
means giving up all hope for a better past.”
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